relationshipwithyourselfThe most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. When this relationship changes and evolves, make no mistake that your external life will reflect these changes too. It’s no accident that when I’m busting with love and overflowing with inner happiness, the people around me reflect that back. 

It’s no accident that when I truly trust that Allah will provide for me, I have new clients and opportunities knocking on my door. Here I’m going to share 4 ways to flex you self-love muscle, so that you can show up as the most happiest and vibrate version of you.

Give Yourself Compliments

You go through your day magnifying your mistakes and criticising every non-existent flaw you could possibly have, so why not change the daily dialogue you have with yourself? There was a period in my life that no matter how hard I tried, I was constantly feeling depressed and unmotivated.

I was seriously questioning quitting my blog and felt so useless. In that moment, I noticed how all my thoughts were beyond negative and weighing me down. No wonder I felt so awful!

Since that moment, I’ve made a conscious decision to check in with my thoughts and feed positivity into my mind. That’s why I love and highly recommend complementing yourself on a daily basis. It raises your energetic vibration and often leaves me in silent giggles. Every time you walk pass a mirror or mess up, compliment yourself. My favourite comments include: ‘You’re such a babe’, ‘You – you’re smoking!’ ‘Girl, you’re on fire!’ ‘You’re seriously so gorgeous’.

Would that not make you smile? Would you still take yourself so seriously after that? I highly doubt. You’re been thinking negatively for so long and it hasn’t worked, so why not give this a try?

Spend 5 Minutes Every Morning On Yourself

Beauty. There’s no denying it.  As women, beauty is such an integral part of our femininity. Life gets busy and we’re the first ones to put our needs on the back stove. When you wake up, it’s so easy to rush into the day and forget that your still in your pyjamas (guilty!). For those reasons, spend 5 minutes every morning on you. Specifically on your appearance and clothes.

Even if you’re a stay at home mother or work from home, dressing beautifully can do wonders for your self esteem and confidence and is an important key when embracing your own radical self love routine. I noticed the days that I quickly flick on mascara, softly smudge a black/brown eye liner around my eyes, I feel so much more beautiful. I’ve seen grandmothers who can barely walk, still find the time to pencil in their eyebrows. It’s because beauty is such an integral need for us women.

Work On Your Passions

If you don’t nourish this part of yourself, it’ll show up in many other ways. You’ll be the cranky wife and mother constantly nagging at your husband and children (for control) because you’re feeling so lost deep within yourself. You’ll drown yourself in marathons of TV dramas and movies because you’ve ignored that spark, calling you to something greater…

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signarure2P.s This is an article that I wrote for Halal Goodies. Click on the button above to continue reading + discover the 4th way to embrace daily self-love and enhance the most important relationship you have. This alone has been a game-changer for so many women x

7 Comments on The Most Exciting, Challenging and Significant Relationship You’ll Ever Have (Hint… It’s Not What You Think)

  1. I completely agree with this! I think one I need to focus on is spending 5 minutes on myself every morning. I literally wake up every morning and im rushing around just doing things i’ll forget about myself for most of the day! To remember myself at the beginning seems more beneficitial

  2. Wow so beautiful Mashaa Allah.
    This is what I needed in my life.This motivates me a lot.Be yourself.You wrote it so beautifully,it touched my heart I swear.
    Thank You for writing this,I am feeling better now.
    -Team Ayeina.

  3. Totally Agree Fab ! These are some rituals that I struggle hard to include in my routine as well. The one healthy ritual I wanted to include forever has been about my sleep time. Early to bed and Early to rise. How I wish I could do it every day ! Now this article gives me a push to try again

  4. Yes! I need to pamper myself from head to toe 😉

    More than money and fame, that’s simple things would really make us bloom. Loved reading this article! Thanks.

  5. Love this! Ever since I had my daughter 14 months ago, I have really been trying to focus on self care and doing stuff that makes me happy. I notice a significance difference when I spend time on myself, especially when I get ready for the day!

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